After a break for the holidays, we’re back! Today we’re talking about safety at the holidays for LGBTQ+ individuals/families with potentially unsafe extended families or other connections. When so many people gather, many of us have gatherings that aren’t safe or welcoming. So today, that’s what we are talking about.
Holidays and special occasions (whenever they may take place) are often a time for family gatherings (whether in person or remote). However, if those gatherings aren’t safe/free from discrimination, it makes the holidays tough for those who are excluded.
What are holidays like for you? Are your gatherings safe and welcoming? Does your (extended) family have firm rules that ensure discriminatory behaviour is not allowed?
Do you have gatherings that you no longer attend? Are you able to find other gatherings that are safe instead?
What would it take to make gatherings safe? Have you found people in your circles receptive to change that would make gatherings more inclusive?
Where do you live and how has the political climate in the last few years directly impacted you?
Share your thoughts, questions and wins in the comments. I’ll respond to all of your questions (or as many as I can!)
